I am just recently married, and know that starting a family is coming in the next few years. I am constantly thinking, there is no way that I can spend this much time on school while starting a family. It is good to hear that others have felt this way. When the time comes to start a family, I feel much better knowing that I don't have to make school my number one priority. I would much rather "cheat" at school than "cheat" s on being a mom and wife.d